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25.10.06
.::Selamat Hari Raya!::.
How time flies... tup tup dah raya. This year's raya was just simple celebration. It's my younger son & maid's 1st time raya. First day is like every other year. My family and I will visit only our seniors. This year might be a simple celebration for me but it has an extra meaning to me.
For the past few years, my hubby didn't go to my mum's coz he sort of felt hurt with something my mum said to my cousin about me. He find that it very untrue. That incident lead to my sis quarrelling with him on the phone. And because of both incident my hubby refuse to have anything to do with my mum and especially my sis. So the past few years I went to my mum's with just my son and he waited in the car. As a daughter, I felt that my mum is just human..you know how poeple would say hurting words when they are angry. Of course I was hurt but after sometimes I just let it go. I dont know.. maybe its just me. I guess i'm the type who tend to forgive others easily. Anyway she's my mum. I always hold to this mly saying, "buruk baik mereka tetap orang tua kita". Good or bad she's still my mum and her blood runs thru me and i cant just severe ties..God forbid.
Every year raya i kept hoping and praying that my hubby would want to open up his heart to visit my mum. Although he might not want to go, he still allows me to visit my mum. But he doesnt like me be close to my sis at all.
Few days before raya this year, I was discussing with hubby about our visiting route on the first day raya. he mentioned that he doesnt that he doesnt want to go visit my mum again. I told him that my sis is not living there anymore and he promised last time he will go if she's not there. Alhamdulillah he agreed. However he made me promise that not to ask him to go again if we accidentally met my sis family there. Luckily when we went there my sis family havent come yet. Actually my sis missed us by half an hour.
But we met at my aunt's place. My hubby is closed with my aunt's family so of course he just ignore my sis. Before my sis went home she ask for my forgiveness. Then i reminded that she havent do that to my hubby especially since they quarrelled. At first she doesnt want to because she says that my hubby is taking a nap. But I just told her to just go. Luckily my aunt was there to coax her. When she did that, I was sooo happy. At least my hubby will now keep the grudge anymore. In fact when we went home, he asked me wahat made her do that. I told she wanted to do that but feel uncomfy and embaressed about doing it. But with the miracle of raya and soothing words of apology has changed my hubby. Alhamdulillah... i was so glad that I almost cried when he said that i must invite my mum and my sis to our house.
The day ended with us visiting Obek Umi from KL at Lion City Hotel. Imagine 5 families cramped into 1 hotel room. It was so fun. We were there from 12 am to almost 2 am.. i reached home at 2+am and went to bed at 3am. I had difficulty waking up just now.. hehe. Anyway, Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri Minal Aidil WalFaezin Maaf Zahir & Batin.
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